Democrats need an overhaul before I give them any more money or time

Recently I've been bombarded by requests for donations from Democrat-affiliated groups (DNC, John Kerry, and today in the mail, Hilary Clinton). I gave a crapload of money to the Kerry campaign, in the hope that somehow we would get past the chaos and incompetence that was apparently going on with that ticket. And of course I got nothing for it, but OK, I understand that elections are tough. But things don't seem to be getting better. Things like Howard Dean's comments: "The Republicans are not very friendly to different kinds of people. They're a pretty monolithic party. They all behave the same, and they all look the same. It's pretty much a white, Christian party." This was awful, and he's the guy in charge.

I want to support the causes I believe in, with money, volunteering, or whatever. But I'm not going to reward proven incompetence with additional donations. Show me some results, some competence, Democratic Party, and you'll have my full support.